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Recognizing Workplace Bullying: Examples of Harmful Behaviors

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Workplace bullying is a pervasive issue that can have detrimental effects on both employees and organizations. While it often goes unnoticed or unreported, it's essential to shed light on these harmful behaviors to create a safer and more respectful work environment. We will explore some examples of workplace bullying behaviors, helping you recognize when it's happening and take appropriate action.

Verbal Abuse:
One of the most common forms of workplace bullying is verbal abuse. This includes shouting, belittling, name-calling, and using offensive language toward colleagues.

Example: A coworker repeatedly insults another colleague during team meetings, making derogatory comments about their ideas and abilities.

In today's digital age, workplace bullying has found a new platform – the internet. Cyberbullying involves using electronic communication to harass, threaten, or intimidate coworkers. This may include sending hurtful emails, spreading rumors online, or posting offensive content on social media.

Example: An employee creates a fake social media profile to mock and humiliate a coworker, sharing embarrassing information about them online. Alternatively, a coworker may blindly copy and forward your email to your supervisor with malicious intent.

Exclusion is a subtle yet damaging form of workplace bullying and can be done to harm. It occurs when individuals or groups purposefully leave out a colleague, isolate them, or ignore their contributions.

Example: A team consistently organizes social events and gatherings but deliberately excludes one team member, making them feel like an outsider. The colleague may be excluded from lunch or ignored when a meeting invitation is sent.

Sabotage involves intentionally undermining a coworker's work, projects, or career advancement. It may include withholding information, spreading false rumors, or intentionally making mistakes to tarnish a colleague's reputation.

Example: An employee tampers with a coworker's presentation just before an important meeting, causing the colleague to appear unprepared and incompetent. The employee may also be denied a promotion or a raise because the supervisor provides a poor evaluation.

Excessive micromanagement can also be a form of workplace bullying. When a supervisor or coworker constantly monitors and criticizes another person's work.

Example: A manager reviews every detail of an employee's work, criticizes them constantly and rarely acknowledges their efforts.

There are many ways to intimidate others, including aggressive body language, threatening gestures, blocking exits, and invading a colleague's personal space.

Example: A supervisor leans in very closely and raises their voice aggressively when providing feedback to an employee, making them feel intimidated and uncomfortable.

Retaliation manifests when an individual experiences negative repercussions or mistreatment after reporting or discussing bullying incidents. It can also occur when a bully believes that someone has exposed their wrongful conduct. This behavior dissuades employees from speaking up about bullying incidents, perpetuating the cycle of abuse.

Example: A workplace bully might retaliate and resort to verbal abuse, intimidation, or other unprofessional behaviors if they suspect that their target has reported or discussed their actions with someone. Additionally, in cases where a coworker report bullying behavior to HR, they could face consequences like being assigned undesirable tasks and being isolated from team activities as a form of punishment for their willingness to come forward.

Physical Violence:
In some cases, workplace bullying can escalate to physical violence or threats. This includes any physical harm, gestures of violence, or acts intended to intimidate or harm a colleague physically.

Example: A bully physically collides with the coworker in the hallway or aggressively charges toward them.

Spreading False Rumors:
Spreading false rumors about a colleague is a classic form of workplace bullying that can tarnish their professional reputation. It could involve baseless allegations of misconduct, personal attacks, or gossip aimed at undermining the targeted individual's credibility.

Example: A coworker initiates a false rumor alleging that a colleague is illicitly acquiring company secrets and sharing them with competitors, thereby tarnishing the colleague's standing within the organization. Alternatively, another coworker begins disseminating stories within the workplace about a colleague having an extramarital affair and going through a divorce, or they start spreading gossip regarding the alleged subpar quality of their work.

Public Humiliation:
Publicly humiliating a coworker is a particularly damaging form of workplace bullying. This can happen during meetings, presentations, or even in front of clients or superiors, causing immense harm to an individual's professional standing.

Example: A manager chastises an employee for a minor mistake in front of the entire team, making the employee appear incompetent and unprofessional.

Taking Credit for Others' Work:
Claiming credit for someone else's work is not only unethical but also a form of bullying.

Example: A colleague repeatedly presents ideas and solutions to the boss as their own when, in fact, they were developed by another team member.

Withholding Critical Information:
Deliberately withholding crucial information from a colleague can be a subtle yet damaging form of bullying. This tactic can cause a coworker to make mistakes, appear ill-informed, or miss opportunities, harming their reputation in the process.

Example: A team member fails to share vital data with a coworker, leading the coworker to make a costly error in a project, which reflects poorly on their abilities.

Workplace bullying is a serious issue that can harm individuals' mental and emotional well-being, as well as negatively impact organizational culture and productivity. By recognizing these examples of bullying behaviors, employees and employers can take steps to address and prevent workplace bullying, fostering a more respectful and inclusive work environment.

It's crucial to comprehend and tackle these behaviors, but remember, you can also assess whether you're experiencing workplace bullying. Additionally, you have the option to download the Documentation Workbook, which can aid in gaining a deeper understanding of the situation and mitigating the distressing impact of workplace bullying. You can find these resources by clicking HERE.